Richard Cousins had lived in Hyde Heath for the last 18 years. When they
first moved in, with two young children, Will and Edward, and his
vivacious wife Caroline, they soon joined in to village life and became
well known, particularly within the Cricket Club. Richard was a keen
batsman and an aggressive fielder but, above all, a fair sportsman who
loved cricket both in the playing and the watching. It would be fair to
say he was on the down-slope of his cricketing career when he came to Hyde
Heath and, with his business travelling, wasn’t an absolute regular, but
when he was playing, you knew he was around. He was always really keen to
play, loved batting and took great pride in it. He always made runs and
never gave his wicket away. His followed this up with always being
available to umpire and, indeed, to bowl his version of slow spin and was
ever-optimistic of taking the vital wicket! In combination with Caroline,
who produced the most mouth-watering teas, Richard was an archetypal
village cricketer with no hint that here was one of the top business
brains in the country. From this he did manage to play some celebrity
cricket and often came up with a tale of bowling Lara or hitting Angus
Fraser around but only in a modest and unassuming way that typified his
behaviour and character. To say he appeared “ordinary” within the Cricket
Club and life in general, is to his enormous credit.
Over the years he played less but was often around and supportive. His
sons grew older and Will started to play for the village, being ably
supported and coached by Richard. Just over 2 years ago Caroline died
after a very short illness, a tragic blow to the family. Caroline had been
a teacher at Beaconsfield High School, combining this with supporting
Richard in his busy job. They had been University sweethearts and Richard
sorely missed her as did we all. They were a wonderful kind and generous
partnership and many people sought advice from them both as to how to
progress in life, advice thoughtfully and freely given.
After Caroline’s death Richard based himself more in London although kept
his home here where the boys, Will and Edward, were more permanent
residents. He was a regular visitor as he had many firm friends here,
however he found a second love of his life in London, Emma Bowden, and was
planning a new life there in Tooting, at the time of his untimely death.
Everyone will have read about Richard the businessman and how successful
he had been. Richard, the man, the villager and cricketer, seemed far
removed from this persona. Most “Top Bosses” are seen as self-important,
arrogant and opinionated, and, although successful in their spheres, not
necessarily as successful in their personal lives. Richard was the
opposite. He was always interested in people and their views. When
chatting he was a listener, seemingly intent on you and your life in a
very genuine way. Although he had the ears of Ministers, he valued the
views of others and was always good company in the Plough after matches.
He was never pompous, nor dictatorial and rarely gave severe opinion or
offence. His political views were probably at odds with his FTSE
colleagues but rarely obvious except perhaps over Brexit of which he
strongly disapproved! He was a good father, a loving husband and good
friend to many. He was looking forward to winding down in March with great
plans was to where to go and achieve next. As one prominent villager
stated, “It’s difficult to believe in God, if he allows a tragedy of this
sort to occur”.
Richard,
of course, was the best-known to lose their lives in the terrible accident
but there were 4 others, 2 of them living or based in Hyde Heath. Edward
Cousins had lived in the village most of his life, educated at Berkhamsted
School like his brother and then attending St Andrew’s University from
which he had just graduated. He planned to follow his uncle in to the
Police force and was due in the next week or so to have his final
interview. He was a giant of a lad, quietly spoken and modest but not
without strong idealistic views. . It is strange, even bizarre, to think
this young lad with so much potential is dead along with all his family.
Will, his older brother, was probably better known here. He started playing
cricket at the age of 16 and played the odd game initially. It would be
honest to say he was not the most gifted of sportsmen but was keen and
willing to learn. When he started playing cricket he was shy and unsure of
himself as many young men are, but he stuck at it and developed.
Initially,he struggled to find a career path, and with a few false starts
ended up in the Political world. Various tributes from well-known faces
seem to confirm that he had settled fully into this world and was making a
real success of things. What is fact, is that his cricket became a real
joy to him and how well he had started to enjoy the friendship and
camaraderie sport can bring. His maiden half-century, at the Bank of
England ground, was amazing and enjoyed by the team as much as by him. It
will be long remembered and it is appalling that he will not be able to
follow this up, a life cut tragically short.
Richard, Will and Edward, alongside Emma and her daughter Heather died in
a tragic accident in Australia that shocked the UK, where Hyde Heath lost
3 of it’s best..
John Capper - President HHCC
January 2018
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